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🗓 Date: Tuesday, 17 February 2026
⏰ Time: 6:00 PM — Canberra / Melbourne / Sydney (AEDT)
📍 Location: Live on Zoom
🎥 Replay: Yes — a recording will be sent if you can’t attend live
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What this session is
This is not a motivational talk.
And it’s not more healing.
It’s a diagnostic conversation about what happens
when awareness meets pressure, when the nervous system is activated e.g. Fear —
and the system defaults to the identity it has practiced the longest.
We’ll look at why insight doesn’t reliably translate into behaviour
when consequences are present.
And why pushing, forcing, or “trying harder”
often makes the pattern tighten instead of resolve.
What it isn’t
There’s nothing to prepare.
Nothing to perform.
Nothing to fix before you arrive.
You don’t need to participate or share.
You don’t need to take notes.
This work isn’t about collecting information.
It’s about recognising what’s already been happening — clearly.
How to meet this conversation
If you can, join from a quiet space.
Listen for what lands — not what sounds impressive.
Notice what you recognise in yourself
when pressure, choice, or consequence is named.
That’s the work.
What comes after
This masterclass will clarify why change keeps collapsing
even when awareness is high.
It will not, on its own, create stability.
A Light in the Dark - The Integration Method (my course) exists for women (men) who recognise themselves here and are ready to build the capacity
to live from a different identity when it actually matters.
There’s nothing to decide today.
This session simply shows you the terrain.
That’s all you need for now
You’re registered.
You’ll be reminded.
I’ll see you there.
This isn’t about more healing.
It’s about understanding what’s actually happening when change matters —
and why the same tools stop working here.
Why This Phase Matters
Most people who find this work aren’t confused.
They’re deeply self-aware.
They understand their patterns.
They know what they want to change.
And yet, when it comes time to actually move — apply for the job leave the role that’s slowly draining them
date differently
set a boundary with family
be seen, speak up, or lead
something tightens.
Not because they don’t want it.
Not because they’re unhealed.
But because when the nervous system activates, the body defaults to the identity it has practised the longest.
This masterclass explains that moment.
The moment where fear, anxiety, self-doubt, or contraction shows up and is misread as a stop sign — instead of what it actually is: activation without new data.
When you understand what’s happening in real time — in your body, your nervous system, and your sense of self — those moments stop running the show.
They become information.
And that’s when things start to change.
Not abstractly.
Practically.
You can press send.
Apply for the role.
Have the conversation.
Take the step your insight has been circling for years.
This is the relief most people don’t know they’ve been waiting for.
A Light in the Dark — The Integration Method
This masterclass sits within a larger body of work called
A Light in the Dark — The Integration Method.
It was created because there is a phase after healing
where awareness alone no longer creates consistent, lived change.
The work is a 12-week integration container designed to support
your nervous system and identity to hold change while it’s happening —
so the choices you already know you want to make
become sustainable in real life, not just understood internally.
There’s nothing to decide right now.
This session simply shows you what’s been missing —
and what becomes possible once it’s addressed.